Sex Unshackled with Becky Crepsley-Fox
HIV in 2021

HIV in 2021

July 16, 2021

In this episode I speak with Dr Naomi Sutton about HIV, what it is and how it spreads, the treatments and how we can support partners and friends who receive a diagnosis. 

 

About Naomi:

Dr Naomi Sutton works as a Consultant Physician in Sexual Health for the NHS. Having qualified as a doctor in 2003 from Sheffield University, she became a Consultant in her field in 2016. Her passion has always been in education and raising awareness of sexual health topics, regularly lecturing at conferences and other events. 

Naomi starred as the Doctor on series one and two of the E4 TV show “The Sex Clinic”, crystallising her mission to reduce the stigma surrounding sex and sexual problems and to challenge unhealthy assumptions. 

Naomi is proud to be a Trustee for the ‘Saving Lives UK’ Charity; a charity which exists to raise awareness of HIV and STI testing, and is also an ‘Eve Appeal Ambassador’; a charity which raises awareness of the five gynaecological cancers.  

 

Where to find Naomi:

https://twitter.com/drnaomisutton

Instagram - @drnaomisutton

 

Where to find me:

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

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Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

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Chronic illness and sex.

Chronic illness and sex.

July 9, 2021

In this episode I speak with Dr Lee Phillips about how to navigate sex and relationships with a chronic illness. We discuss how to support a partner who has a chronic illness as well as advice on dating and communication.

 

About Lee:

 

Dr. Lee Phillips is in private practice in Reston, VA where he specializes in couples sex therapy. He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Washington, DC, Maryland, Virginia, and Florida. Dr. Phillips is a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC) in the state of Virginia. He is a Certified Sex Therapist (CST) by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). In addition, he is a Certified Sex and Couples Therapist (CSCT) by the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute. He has been in private practice for more than a decade, working with individuals and couples on sexuality after chronic illness.

He lectures on topics including sexuality, chronic pain, anxiety and stress management, caregiving stress, depression in the elderly, mindfulness and cognitive strategies for chronic pain, reclaiming sexuality for couples with chronic illness, ethical decision making, the assessment of mental disorders, and exploring sexual communication, freedom, and pleasure for gender minorities with chronic illness, pain, and other disabilities. He has published in the Journal of Baccalaureate Social Work, conducting a research study on LGBTQ-Affirmative Teaching at Historically Black Colleges and Universities: Understanding Program Directors Views. He has been a featured expert in Teen Vogue, Healthline, and The Lily Newspaper.

 

He writes for Psychology Today. Dr. Phillips is writing his first book, Sex and Love When You’re in Pain, which helps couples overcome shame and the sexual limitations caused by illness and gives strategies to create and reclaim a sex life that works. He is the host of the Sex & Chronic Illness Podcast. His podcast features stories from individuals, couples, and other experts in the field on overcoming shame and the sexual limitations caused by illness and disability. He holds a Doctor of Education (Ed.D.) degree in Organizational Leadership with an emphasis in Behavioral Health from Grand Canyon University in Phoenix, AZ. In addition, Dr. Phillips is an adjunct professor in the Master of Social Work Program with the School of Social Work at Western New Mexico University and he is an instructor for The Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and with Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

 

Where to find Lee:

Website: www.drleephillips
Facebook: @drleephillips
Instagram: @drleephillips
Twitter: @Dr. Lee Phillips

 

Where to find me:

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox

Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

 

Flirting tips for post lockdown fun

Flirting tips for post lockdown fun

July 2, 2021

In this episode I speak with Lucy Rowett about how to flirt for both solo and partnered people, why flirting is so important and  how to embrace mistakes. 

 

About Lucy:

 
Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS is a sexologist and intimacy coach who is passionate about helping overthinking women let go of sexual shame, embrace pleasure, and claim the joy of their sexuality. She uses a fusion of “neck up” and “neck down” approaches, combining sexology and accurate sexuality education with somatic practices, taoism, tantra, and embodiment. As a sexpert, she has been quoted in many online publications such as Kinkly, Men’s Health, Glamour, Dame, O Diaries, Oprah Magazine, Brides, Tinder Swipe Life, and The Body. She is passionate about exploring the intersections of faith, sexuality, and shame She lives in Brighton with her partner, and is a fanatic tea connoisseur, devourer of books, lover of dancing, and slave to cats.
 
Where to find Lucy:
 
Instagram: @juiceandjasmine
Free audio training for better sexual communication: bit.ly/MoreofWhatYouWant
Re-Kindle The Sexy Spark in Your Relationship: bit.ly/ReKindleTheSparkBook
 
Where to find me:
 

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox

Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

 
Sex camp and yoni eggs

Sex camp and yoni eggs

June 25, 2021

In this episode I speak with Fran Bushe about her sexual journey. We discuss painful sex/vaginismus, lack of sexual enjoyment/orgasm, an array of methods that Fran has tried and where she is with her journey so far.

 

About Fran:

Fran Bushe is an award-winning comedian, writer and performer. She has had sold-out runs of her multi-award winning show Ad Libido, and wrote The Diary of My Broken Vagina for Channel 4 Comedy in 2019. Fran has spent years ‘boning up’ on sex. She has spoken with leading researchers, pleasure coaches and interviewed a growing number of people about their sexual experiences. It has also meant flustering many helpful members of staff at The British Library, with endless requests for books on the clitoris. She’s popped crystals in her vagina, attended a vulva massage workshop and visited a sex camp where she had her ‘Yoni’ (…vagina) worshipped. Her candid approach to discussing sex and pleasure has led to her speaking with BBC Woman’s Hour, Cosmopolitan, The Sunday Times and Jameela Jamil’s ‘I Weigh’. In 2018 she won Performer of the Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards (the statuette of which is a large golden winged phallus, which lives on her parents’ mantlepiece).

 

Where to find Fran:

My Broken Vagina by Fran Bushe | Waterstones

Instagram - @franbushe

 

Where to find me:

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox

Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

How to know what you want in bed.

How to know what you want in bed.

June 11, 2021

In this episode I speak with Sarah Rose Bright about how to know what you want in bed, low sexual desire and how to cultivate more eroticism in your life.

 

About Sarah:

Sarah Rose Bright is a leading Sex, Pleasure & Intimacy coach and she’s on a mission to to empower women to discover their pleasure and feel sexually confident, so that they can truly enjoy sex, create healthy relationships, and their lives can fully blossom into the incredible potential they deserve.

 

Where to find Sarah:

sarahrosebright.com

Breast massage audio practice - a gift - sarahrosebright.co.uk/breast-massage-gift/
 
Ignite Your Sexuality - for 1/3rd off the full price of £195, use the discount code IGNITETHIRDOFF 
 

Youtube - youtube.com/c/sarahrosebright

Facebook - facebook.com/sarahrosebrightsexcoach

For some sensual playlists find me on Spotify - spotify.com/user/dog9xui4wwpjatvbnpb2t7l3y?si=jnc_V6wxSCqaqr3UhNgD6Q

Instagram - @Sarahrosebright

 

Where to find me:

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox

Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

 

Ejaculation vs orgasm for people with penises.

Ejaculation vs orgasm for people with penises.

June 4, 2021

In this episode I speak with Cam Fraser about sexuality for people with penises, the difference between ejaculation and orgasm and how to get started with prostate massage.

 

About Cam:

Australia’s leading Men's Sex Coach and one of Lovehoney's resident Sexperts, Cam is a Sex Coach, Relationship Counsellor, Sexologist and Tantric Yoga Teacher.

A world traveler, Cam speaks on topics such as sex and relationships by drawing from a depth of relatable life experiences. From relationships to intimacy to sex to masculinity, Cam comfortably brings a new, unique and professional perspective to these discussions.

Cam hosts a weekly men's health podcast called Men, Sex & Pleasure and has a contributed to numerous print and digital publications as an expert on sexuality and masculinity.

 

Where to find Cam:

Instagram, Ticktok and Twitter - @thecamfraser

cam-fraser.com/about

 

Where to find me:

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox

Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

Do you masturbate?

Do you masturbate?

May 28, 2021

In this episode I speak with Poppy Lepora about all things masturbation. We discuss some sex toys you can try, butt stuff and why masturbation is great whether you are solo or in relationship/s.

 

About Poppy:

Poppy Lepora is a pleasure educator, masturbation activist and owner of the online sex toy boutique Self & More. 
 
Self & More is a sex-positive online toy boutique based in London. They aim is to help people explore what gives them pleasure and empower them to use that knowledge to have a more satisfying sex life all round. They have carefully curated a selection of body-safe, quality toys for all bodies and experience levels.
 
Where to find Poppy and Self & More:
Instagram - @poppyscarlett_
and @selfandmore
 

Where to find me:

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox

Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

 

How to release anger and return to pleasure.

How to release anger and return to pleasure.

May 21, 2021

In this episode I speak with Johnny Vajra about how to release anger to make space for sexuality, how kink can be healing and how pleasure is our birthright. 

 

About Johnny:

Johnny Vajra is a Spiritual Alchemist, Intimacy Coach and Pleasure Educator. Johnny incorporates sacred sexuality, kink, and mindful meditation to promote conscious community via workshops and immersion experiences. (johnnyvajra.com)

 

Johnny Vajra is certified as a Usui Reiki Master, Karuna Advanced Reiki Intuitive Energy Worker, and ThetaHealing Practitioner. Johnny is currently an ISTA Apprentice, as well as L1/L2/Practitioner Training (PT) Graduate.

 

Johnny Vajra is founder of Metagene Health, a facilitator of Tantra/Kink workshops.  Johnny's most recent project was co-facilititator on a 10-Week empowerment course titled 'The Sex & Happiness Journey 3'

 

Where to find Johnny:

allmylinks.com/johnnyvajra

Instagram - @johnny.v.alchemy

 

Where to find me:

beckycrepsleyfox.com

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox

TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox

Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox

Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

Sex and relationships for the emotionally intense/highly sensitive person

Sex and relationships for the emotionally intense/highly sensitive person

May 14, 2021

In this episode I speak with Imi Lo about what an emotionally intense and highly sensitive person is, some problems they might encounter and ways for them to navigate sex and relationships. 

 

About imi:

Imi Lo is a Psychotherapist, Art Therapist, and Consultant for emotionally intense and highly sensitive people. She is the Founder of Eggshell Therapy and Coaching and author of the book Emotional Sensitivity and Intensity, which is available in multiple languages. She specialises in emotional intensity, high sensitivity, giftedness, complex trauma (CPTSD), and personality disorders.

Imi is qualified as a Clinical Psychotherapist (UKCP), Creative Arts Therapist (ANZACATA), Schema Therapist (ISST), Philosophical Counsellor (NPCA), Mentalisation-based Treatment Practitioner (BPC), Clinical Supervisor and Mindfulness Teacher. With more than a decade of experience, she has worked in the NHS, charities and other mental health settings. Now, as an independent consultant, she works holistically, combining East and Western philosophies with psychological and spiritual healing modalities.

Imi is the recipient of multiple scholarships and awards including the Endeavour Award by the Australian Government. She is also a Fellow of the Royal Society of Arts (FRSA) and is committed to creating social changes.

She has been featured as a pioneer in the field in publications such as The Psychologies Magazine, The Telegraph, Marie Claire, and The Daily Mail. Her work appears on Psychology Today, Psych Central and other online platforms.

Leaving home at a young age, Imi has lived and worked in the UK, Australia, Taiwan and Hong Kong. She has been a school therapist, suicide counsellor, social worker, artist, mindfulness teacher, yoga instructor, holistic healer, and psychotherapy trainer. 

Combining her life-long passion and clinical expertise, she founded Eggshell Therapy and Coaching, where she works with intense people from around the world.

 

Where to find Imi:

EGGSHELLTHERAPY.COM

Imi's book:

The Book: Emotional Sensitivity and Intensity

 

Where to find me:

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox
Conscious communication.

Conscious communication.

May 7, 2021

In this episode I speak with Deya and Hugo about conscious communication, the importance of joining and noticing unhelpful patterns in relating. 

 

About Deya:

Deya is a Cacao sorceress, Creative Meditation instructor, student of Tantra, workshop facilitator and the founder of CacaoAmor. Her mission is to inspire others to find their own healing powers, connecting to their innate joy and love. She is a beautiful being of light, laughter and the energetic embodiment of connection and playfulness inherent in the Spirit of Cacao.

 

About Hugo: 

Hugo is a conscious explorer, Psychologist, Integrative Therapist, Tantra Instructor, Inspirational speaker and Artist. His mission is to support people to say yes and invite joy, connection and excitement into their lives. Helping others seek growth through curiosity and exploration, and find compassion through self-awareness. He is a bundle of energy, joy and creativity, filled with a wealth of knowledge, tools and willingness to share.

 

Both Hugo and Deya:

Hugo and Deya will be sharing their Tantric communication workshop at Medicine Festival this year. Keep an eye on their socials for more information.

 

Where to find Deya:

CacaoAmor.com 

Instagram - @cacaomortantra

 

Where to find Hugo:

InMindInsight.co.uk 

Instagram - @the.adventure.psychologist

 

Where to find me:

Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox
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