Sex Unshackled with Becky Crepsley-Fox

Flirting tips for post lockdown fun

In this episode I speak with Lucy Rowett about how to flirt for both solo and partnered people, why flirting is so important and  how to embrace mistakes. 
 
About Lucy:
 
Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS is a sexologist and intimacy coach who is passionate about helping overthinking women let go of sexual shame, embrace pleasure, and claim the joy of their sexuality. She uses a fusion of “neck up” and “neck down” approaches, combining sexology and accurate sexuality education with somatic practices, taoism, tantra, and embodiment. As a sexpert, she has been quoted in many online publications such as Kinkly, Men’s Health, Glamour, Dame, O Diaries, Oprah Magazine, Brides, Tinder Swipe Life, and The Body. She is passionate about exploring the intersections of faith, sexuality, and shame She lives in Brighton with her partner, and is a fanatic tea connoisseur, devourer of books, lover of dancing, and slave to cats.
 
Where to find Lucy:
 
Instagram: @juiceandjasmine
Facebook group for women: facebook.com/groups/IntimatelyEmpoweredWoman
Free audio training for better sexual communication: bit.ly/MoreofWhatYouWant
Re-Kindle The Sexy Spark in Your Relationship: bit.ly/ReKindleTheSparkBook
 
Where to find me:
 
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox
 

Sex camp and yoni eggs

In this episode I speak with Fran Bushe about her sexual journey. We discuss painful sex/vaginismus, lack of sexual enjoyment/orgasm, an array of methods that Fran has tried and where she is with her journey so far.
 
About Fran:
Fran Bushe is an award-winning comedian, writer and performer. She has had sold-out runs of her multi-award winning show Ad Libido, and wrote The Diary of My Broken Vagina for Channel 4 Comedy in 2019. Fran has spent years ‘boning up’ on sex. She has spoken with leading researchers, pleasure coaches and interviewed a growing number of people about their sexual experiences. It has also meant flustering many helpful members of staff at The British Library, with endless requests for books on the clitoris. She’s popped crystals in her vagina, attended a vulva massage workshop and visited a sex camp where she had her ‘Yoni’ (…vagina) worshipped. Her candid approach to discussing sex and pleasure has led to her speaking with BBC Woman’s Hour, Cosmopolitan, The Sunday Times and Jameela Jamil’s ‘I Weigh’. In 2018 she won Performer of the Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards (the statuette of which is a large golden winged phallus, which lives on her parents’ mantlepiece).
 
Where to find Fran:
My Broken Vagina by Fran Bushe | Waterstones
Instagram - @franbushe
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

How to know what you want in bed.

In this episode I speak with Sarah Rose Bright about how to know what you want in bed, low sexual desire and how to cultivate more eroticism in your life.
 
About Sarah:
Sarah Rose Bright is a leading Sex, Pleasure & Intimacy coach and she’s on a mission to to empower women to discover their pleasure and feel sexually confident, so that they can truly enjoy sex, create healthy relationships, and their lives can fully blossom into the incredible potential they deserve.
 
Where to find Sarah:
sarahrosebright.com
Breast massage audio practice - a gift - sarahrosebright.co.uk/breast-massage-gift/
 
Ignite Your Sexuality - for 1/3rd off the full price of £195, use the discount code IGNITETHIRDOFF 
sarahrosebright.co.uk/event/ignite-your-sexuality-online-course/
 
Youtube - youtube.com/c/sarahrosebright
Facebook - facebook.com/sarahrosebrightsexcoach
For some sensual playlists find me on Spotify - spotify.com/user/dog9xui4wwpjatvbnpb2t7l3y?si=jnc_V6wxSCqaqr3UhNgD6Q
Instagram - @Sarahrosebright
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox
 

Ejaculation vs orgasm for people with penises.

In this episode I speak with Cam Fraser about sexuality for people with penises, the difference between ejaculation and orgasm and how to get started with prostate massage.
 
About Cam:
Australia’s leading Men's Sex Coach and one of Lovehoney's resident Sexperts, Cam is a Sex Coach, Relationship Counsellor, Sexologist and Tantric Yoga Teacher.A world traveler, Cam speaks on topics such as sex and relationships by drawing from a depth of relatable life experiences. From relationships to intimacy to sex to masculinity, Cam comfortably brings a new, unique and professional perspective to these discussions.Cam hosts a weekly men's health podcast called Men, Sex & Pleasure and has a contributed to numerous print and digital publications as an expert on sexuality and masculinity.
 
Where to find Cam:
Instagram, Ticktok and Twitter - @thecamfraser
cam-fraser.com/about
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

Do you masturbate?

In this episode I speak with Poppy Lepora about all things masturbation. We discuss some sex toys you can try, butt stuff and why masturbation is great whether you are solo or in relationship/s.
 
About Poppy:
Poppy Lepora is a pleasure educator, masturbation activist and owner of the online sex toy boutique Self & More. 
 
Self & More is a sex-positive online toy boutique based in London. They aim is to help people explore what gives them pleasure and empower them to use that knowledge to have a more satisfying sex life all round. They have carefully curated a selection of body-safe, quality toys for all bodies and experience levels.
 
Where to find Poppy and Self & More:
selfandmore.co.uk
Instagram - @poppyscarlett_
and @selfandmore
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox
 

How to release anger and return to pleasure.

In this episode I speak with Johnny Vajra about how to release anger to make space for sexuality, how kink can be healing and how pleasure is our birthright. 
 
About Johnny:
Johnny Vajra is a Spiritual Alchemist, Intimacy Coach and Pleasure Educator. Johnny incorporates sacred sexuality, kink, and mindful meditation to promote conscious community via workshops and immersion experiences. (johnnyvajra.com)
 
Johnny Vajra is certified as a Usui Reiki Master, Karuna Advanced Reiki Intuitive Energy Worker, and ThetaHealing Practitioner. Johnny is currently an ISTA Apprentice, as well as L1/L2/Practitioner Training (PT) Graduate.
 
Johnny Vajra is founder of Metagene Health, a facilitator of Tantra/Kink workshops.  Johnny's most recent project was co-facilititator on a 10-Week empowerment course titled 'The Sex & Happiness Journey 3'
 
Where to find Johnny:
allmylinks.com/johnnyvajra
Instagram - @johnny.v.alchemy
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

Sex and relationships for the emotionally intense/highly sensitive person

In this episode I speak with Imi Lo about what an emotionally intense and highly sensitive person is, some problems they might encounter and ways for them to navigate sex and relationships. 
 
About imi:
Imi Lo is a Psychotherapist, Art Therapist, and Consultant for emotionally intense and highly sensitive people. She is the Founder of Eggshell Therapy and Coaching and author of the book Emotional Sensitivity and Intensity, which is available in multiple languages. She specialises in emotional intensity, high sensitivity, giftedness, complex trauma (CPTSD), and personality disorders.
Imi is qualified as a Clinical Psychotherapist (UKCP), Creative Arts Therapist (ANZACATA), Schema Therapist (ISST), Philosophical Counsellor (NPCA), Mentalisation-based Treatment Practitioner (BPC), Clinical Supervisor and Mindfulness Teacher. With more than a decade of experience, she has worked in the NHS, charities and other mental health settings. Now, as an independent consultant, she works holistically, combining East and Western philosophies with psychological and spiritual healing modalities.
Imi is the recipient of multiple scholarships and awards including the Endeavour Award by the Australian Government. She is also a Fellow of the Royal Society of Arts (FRSA) and is committed to creating social changes.
She has been featured as a pioneer in the field in publications such as The Psychologies Magazine, The Telegraph, Marie Claire, and The Daily Mail. Her work appears on Psychology Today, Psych Central and other online platforms.
Leaving home at a young age, Imi has lived and worked in the UK, Australia, Taiwan and Hong Kong. She has been a school therapist, suicide counsellor, social worker, artist, mindfulness teacher, yoga instructor, holistic healer, and psychotherapy trainer. 
Combining her life-long passion and clinical expertise, she founded Eggshell Therapy and Coaching, where she works with intense people from around the world.
 
Where to find Imi:
EGGSHELLTHERAPY.COM
Imi's book:
The Book: Emotional Sensitivity and Intensity
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

Conscious communication.

In this episode I speak with Deya and Hugo about conscious communication, the importance of joining and noticing unhelpful patterns in relating. 
 
About Deya:
Deya is a Cacao sorceress, Creative Meditation instructor, student of Tantra, workshop facilitator and the founder of CacaoAmor. Her mission is to inspire others to find their own healing powers, connecting to their innate joy and love. She is a beautiful being of light, laughter and the energetic embodiment of connection and playfulness inherent in the Spirit of Cacao.
 
About Hugo: 
Hugo is a conscious explorer, Psychologist, Integrative Therapist, Tantra Instructor, Inspirational speaker and Artist. His mission is to support people to say yes and invite joy, connection and excitement into their lives. Helping others seek growth through curiosity and exploration, and find compassion through self-awareness. He is a bundle of energy, joy and creativity, filled with a wealth of knowledge, tools and willingness to share.
 
Both Hugo and Deya:
Hugo and Deya will be sharing their Tantric communication workshop at Medicine Festival this year. Keep an eye on their socials for more information.
 
Where to find Deya:
CacaoAmor.com 
Instagram - @cacaomortantra
 
Where to find Hugo:
InMindInsight.co.uk 
Instagram - @the.adventure.psychologist
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

Pleasure and the senses.

In this episode I speak with Rachel Overvoll about intimacy, receiving pleasure and how tuning into the senses increases our erotic capacity. 
 
About Rachel:
As a young woman growing up in Evangelical Christianity, Rachel was raised feeling immense shame around her body, her sexuality, and intimacy. It was not until she decided to embark on her own journey of self love, pleasure, and sensuality, that she realized the healing power of a healthy, engaged relationship to her sexuality. Rachel believes that a the pinnacle of a joyful life is a flourishing relationship with your own eroticism and in this belief loves empowering people to find a relationship with their erotic self. She teaches people to move beyond shame, to step into their desires, and to live a life embodied in pleasure.
Rachel is certified in the Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coaching Method. She is LGBTQIA, ENM, Poly, Kink, Tantric, and Sex Worker friendly. Coaching is available as one-on-ones and/or for couples.
 
Where to find Rachel:
Author | Finding Feminism
Co Founder | Rise Up Denver
Host | Let's Talk Pleasure
rachelovervoll.com 
Instagram - @rachelovervoll
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox

Issues affecting Black women's sex lives

In this episode I speak with Dr Ashley Townes about issues affecting Black women's sex lives, the lack of sex education in both America and the UK and how negative stereotypes can directly affect peoples sexuality. 
 
About Dr Ashley Townes PhD, MPH:
Dr. Ashley Townes is an ORISE Postdoctoral Research Fellow at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta, GA. Her research background includes work on the sexual experiences of African American/Black women accessing sexual health information and healthcare services. Dr. Townes has experience working as a Community Health Educator, Disease Intervention Specialist, and Epidemiologist.
 
Dr. Townes received her Bachelor of Science and Master of Public Health degrees from the University of Cincinnati and her doctorate degree from Indiana University. Her work aims to provide quality sexuality education and address health equity. She has taught collegiate-level Human Sexuality courses, presented both domestically and internationally, and has published her research in a variety of academic journals.
 
Where to find Ashley:
 linktr.ee/drashleytownes
buzz.pureromance.com/author/atownes 
Instagram: @dr.ashleytownes
 
Where to find me:
beckycrepsleyfox.com
Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox
TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox
Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox
Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox